Congratulations on the birth of your child! Holy Cross is happy to prepare you for your child's baptism. All the information and requirements for baptism are below. You may contact the parish office with questions. The parents of the child to be baptized are to complete the following requirements:
NON-PARISHIONERS SEEKING BAPTISM AT HOLY CROSS
PARENTS AND MARRIAGE
If parents are living in an irregular marriage situation, their child can still be baptized.
When presenting their child for the Sacrament of Baptism, parents should understand the marriage laws of the Church. Read Fr. Carter's explanation on Marriage Situations here. Catholics in an irregular marriage and obstinately persisting in manifest grave sin (cohabiting, fornicating) would be bound by Canon 915 or 916 which prohibits reception of Holy Communion:
It is still possible to baptize the child if they understand the irregularities of their situation and take steps to either regularize it (such as promising to live as brother and sister, petitioning for a declaration of nullity, or marrying if they are free to) or to live in accord with it (i.e., not receive Holy Communion). In the case of an irregular situation, it will be necessary to meet with the Pastor as part of your Baptism preparation.
The purpose of the godparents (sponsors) is to be Christian witnesses. They must have been confirmed, be receiving the Eucharist, and leading the life of faith in keeping with the function to be taken on, not bound by any canonical penalty. A godparent (sponsor) must be a confirmed, practicing Catholic in good standing and living in accord with the marriage laws of the Church. (Read about Marriage Situations here.) One or two godparents meeting these qualifications should be assigned by the parents.
If the godparent is not a Holy Cross parishioner, it is necessary to provide a letter of godparent suitability from the godparent's parish.
A baptized non-Catholic may participate as a witness but not as a sponsor.
If the godparents cannot be present at the Baptism, someone else may stand in for them as proxy.
Godparents should prepare by watching the "Reborn" video series here:
Canon Law Regarding Sponsors
Can. 872 Insofar as possible, a person to be baptized is to be given a sponsor who assists an adult in Christian initiation or together with the parents presents an infant for baptism. A sponsor also helps the baptized person to lead a Christian life in keeping with baptism and to fulfill faithfully the obligations inherent in it.
Can. 873 There is to be only one male sponsor or one female sponsor or one of each.
Can. 874 §1. To be permitted to take on the function of sponsor a person must:
1/ be designated by the one to be baptized, by the parents or the person who takes their place, or in their absence by the pastor or minister and have the aptitude and intention of fulfilling this function;
2/ have completed the sixteenth year of age, unless the diocesan bishop has established another age, or the pastor or minister has granted an exception for a just cause;
3/ be a Catholic who has been confirmed and has already received the most holy sacrament of the Eucharist and who leads a life of faith in keeping with the function to be taken on;
4/ not be bound by any canonical penalty legitimately imposed or declared;
5/ not be the father or mother of the one to be baptized.
§2. A baptized person who belongs to a non-Catholic ecclesial community is not to participate except together with a Catholic sponsor and then only as a witness of the baptism.
A child can be baptized without a godparent if necessary.
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